sure and i was just saying to someone who told me some stat that 1/3 women would be sexually harrassed by the time they are 15, if you count verbally or "innoccent" things like a friend who is a boy kissing you without permission where ypu go "yuckkkk" or unfortunate incidents of bullies in primary school, i remember this one kid as i waited for my mum to pick me up (she was always late), he didnt sexuallly harrass me but he fucking harrassed me it was just as traumatising, and it was low and behold, SHAMEFUL. I felt ashamed because he was a asshole?? i dont get it. why is that a default even for a child. hmmm. i mean i wouldnt feel that these days, never.....but i do remember feeling it with the kid.
But back to the 1/3 sexual harassments, i said its prob more like 3/3 exceot 2/3 dont report it or tell their parents from the shame. i didnt with the bully!
I mean ill be honest, i didnt really address rape in this blog haahaha. not as hardcore as i would could have. I took the more balanced perspective of power. I have alot more extreme takes on the subject this was just one perspective. Power is a big concept surrounding rape, but you can feel that kind of power, by literally just bullying someone who wont fight back, or just simply objectifying someone who didnt consent to being objectified by you. thats rape imo. they doing the same thing on a more minor level, but i hate to rate rape. rape is rape. violence is violence.
Rape = the stealing of power from another via the use of sex in all manners and forms, some may not be physical.
as for the DV comment - i agree we need more men on our side standing up to the patriarchy with us. man, i stand up against the patriarchy or im willing to, every day of my life. why are men so afraid of the patriarchy? whats the worse that would happen? lol. you'll look like a good person.......well fuck, if thats the worry then we screwed! lol
I would say to a male i knew, just say you hear your friend complaining aboutt his 55 yr old wife being hell to be around (because shes probably going through hell that is unmedicated menopause), maybe just pipe up and be all, "be easy, maybe see if shes ok, she sounds like something is really upsetting her." And i KNOW that apparently makes you seem like a pussy or some crap, if so, say it more offensively lol i dont know. just sayyyy something.
i nearly cried when i saw this doctor on that huberman show, he was talking about menopause cause he is a hormone doctor, and he starts talking about the study done on HRT in the 90s that said that it gives you breast cancer and he just striaght up says, it is poddibly the biggest blunder in medical histoty ever conducted. and he goes onto so say why, i mean hes a little overlally nice to the losers conducting this research but he the main message is they lied, they chose participants that werent even from the right population they needed to test, they purposely chose smokers and unhealthy women. They were trying to sabotage women!! wow wee. sooooo shocked. lol. keep us crazy then you can run to your friends and say "shes crazy" and then apparently you are a man? ........can someone tell me what a man is again? because that doctor that was callling out the patriarchy for women's health, which is another topic all on it own, womens health is so fucking ridiculously sabotaged by the patriarchy its scary, they were killing us off not long ago with cervical cancer. Dr Peter Attia his name is,, thats a fucking man. I cried AND i dont know why. it was very awesome to see a man do that for women. and not those fucking men who say theyare feminists lol or wear tshirts saying "i support women"......its like, shut up, how? how are you supporting women and what gives you the right to call yourself a feminist all of a sudden? do something.
This has become a "doing" game brothers. if you all talk and no action, save it because its coming off patronizing and you look like idiots.
yeah to speak to the fact that DV isnt a more cared for section of politics, i was saying to someone they should have like a big chunck of year 7 or first year of high school, dedicated to the teachings of consent. really drive it into their brains boys and girls. and i saidf they should have a annual day. like a no rape day ha. or no sexual harrassment and sexual helath awareness day. why wouldnt that be worth dedicating a whole day to one day a year at high school? consent at this point, needs to be celebrated. And I gotta say before i was a sex worker I knew nothing about sexual health and i know people still dont. i met a 30 yr old male who had never had a sexual health test yet??? i was like, are u kiddingf me. WE NEED A DAY! lol.
and lets face it, im not the first to come up with this concept. i cant be. people have and the idea has been reejcted. its like that referendum vote thing. Theres no "no". lol. sorry but theres no "no" you idiots so no vote needed, just give the land to them, they own it!! haha. fuckkk australia is fustrating. and yeah if you did vote you just contrivuted to the asio with more information which equals power which equals.....idk prob money. i dont know how, im jus pretty sure utopian shit like that doesnt equal "equality" lol.
for start feminism isnt equality. when feminism started it was just about choice, i dont know why it veered off track to be about this utopian "equality" bullshit but its just that. It doesnt exist babe, women and men are mirror images of each other, i think thats true but i think we have the notiion of reflection all wrong. when you look in the mirrior right is left and left is right.......right? different. womena and men are differenrt. theres inequality happening and thats ok....it helps us help each other. only from embracing the differences first via inequality will we ever arrive at the similarities that we are all humans apart of this universe and we are all connected. once you get that message, theres no rape, no lies, no rain clouds. theres just beauty. and when there is ugly things happening like corruption or racism etc, its so easy to point out. because ugly is noticable when you fill your life with beauty. the beauty of being human, and i didnt want to get all after school special on you there, but its fucking true and i really loved understanding that we are all connected on earth and earth is where we belong and we also apart of the universe as well but staying grounded on earth as human as possible is best.
wait..let me re-read what i actually wrote before i answer this lol
sure and i was just saying to someone who told me some stat that 1/3 women would be sexually harrassed by the time they are 15, if you count verbally or "innoccent" things like a friend who is a boy kissing you without permission where ypu go "yuckkkk" or unfortunate incidents of bullies in primary school, i remember this one kid as i waited for my mum to pick me up (she was always late), he didnt sexuallly harrass me but he fucking harrassed me it was just as traumatising, and it was low and behold, SHAMEFUL. I felt ashamed because he was a asshole?? i dont get it. why is that a default even for a child. hmmm. i mean i wouldnt feel that these days, never.....but i do remember feeling it with the kid.
But back to the 1/3 sexual harassments, i said its prob more like 3/3 exceot 2/3 dont report it or tell their parents from the shame. i didnt with the bully!
I mean ill be honest, i didnt really address rape in this blog haahaha. not as hardcore as i would could have. I took the more balanced perspective of power. I have alot more extreme takes on the subject this was just one perspective. Power is a big concept surrounding rape, but you can feel that kind of power, by literally just bullying someone who wont fight back, or just simply objectifying someone who didnt consent to being objectified by you. thats rape imo. they doing the same thing on a more minor level, but i hate to rate rape. rape is rape. violence is violence.
Rape = the stealing of power from another via the use of sex in all manners and forms, some may not be physical.
as for the DV comment - i agree we need more men on our side standing up to the patriarchy with us. man, i stand up against the patriarchy or im willing to, every day of my life. why are men so afraid of the patriarchy? whats the worse that would happen? lol. you'll look like a good person.......well fuck, if thats the worry then we screwed! lol
I would say to a male i knew, just say you hear your friend complaining aboutt his 55 yr old wife being hell to be around (because shes probably going through hell that is unmedicated menopause), maybe just pipe up and be all, "be easy, maybe see if shes ok, she sounds like something is really upsetting her." And i KNOW that apparently makes you seem like a pussy or some crap, if so, say it more offensively lol i dont know. just sayyyy something.
i nearly cried when i saw this doctor on that huberman show, he was talking about menopause cause he is a hormone doctor, and he starts talking about the study done on HRT in the 90s that said that it gives you breast cancer and he just striaght up says, it is poddibly the biggest blunder in medical histoty ever conducted. and he goes onto so say why, i mean hes a little overlally nice to the losers conducting this research but he the main message is they lied, they chose participants that werent even from the right population they needed to test, they purposely chose smokers and unhealthy women. They were trying to sabotage women!! wow wee. sooooo shocked. lol. keep us crazy then you can run to your friends and say "shes crazy" and then apparently you are a man? ........can someone tell me what a man is again? because that doctor that was callling out the patriarchy for women's health, which is another topic all on it own, womens health is so fucking ridiculously sabotaged by the patriarchy its scary, they were killing us off not long ago with cervical cancer. Dr Peter Attia his name is,, thats a fucking man. I cried AND i dont know why. it was very awesome to see a man do that for women. and not those fucking men who say theyare feminists lol or wear tshirts saying "i support women"......its like, shut up, how? how are you supporting women and what gives you the right to call yourself a feminist all of a sudden? do something.
This has become a "doing" game brothers. if you all talk and no action, save it because its coming off patronizing and you look like idiots.
yeah to speak to the fact that DV isnt a more cared for section of politics, i was saying to someone they should have like a big chunck of year 7 or first year of high school, dedicated to the teachings of consent. really drive it into their brains boys and girls. and i saidf they should have a annual day. like a no rape day ha. or no sexual harrassment and sexual helath awareness day. why wouldnt that be worth dedicating a whole day to one day a year at high school? consent at this point, needs to be celebrated. And I gotta say before i was a sex worker I knew nothing about sexual health and i know people still dont. i met a 30 yr old male who had never had a sexual health test yet??? i was like, are u kiddingf me. WE NEED A DAY! lol.
and lets face it, im not the first to come up with this concept. i cant be. people have and the idea has been reejcted. its like that referendum vote thing. Theres no "no". lol. sorry but theres no "no" you idiots so no vote needed, just give the land to them, they own it!! haha. fuckkk australia is fustrating. and yeah if you did vote you just contrivuted to the asio with more information which equals power which equals.....idk prob money. i dont know how, im jus pretty sure utopian shit like that doesnt equal "equality" lol.
for start feminism isnt equality. when feminism started it was just about choice, i dont know why it veered off track to be about this utopian "equality" bullshit but its just that. It doesnt exist babe, women and men are mirror images of each other, i think thats true but i think we have the notiion of reflection all wrong. when you look in the mirrior right is left and left is right.......right? different. womena and men are differenrt. theres inequality happening and thats ok....it helps us help each other. only from embracing the differences first via inequality will we ever arrive at the similarities that we are all humans apart of this universe and we are all connected. once you get that message, theres no rape, no lies, no rain clouds. theres just beauty. and when there is ugly things happening like corruption or racism etc, its so easy to point out. because ugly is noticable when you fill your life with beauty. the beauty of being human, and i didnt want to get all after school special on you there, but its fucking true and i really loved understanding that we are all connected on earth and earth is where we belong and we also apart of the universe as well but staying grounded on earth as human as possible is best.